It really depends on the color of your eyes,
which you didn't mention.
My eyes are green, I only use grey eye shadow.
For blue eyes, dark blue works best.
For brown , it's gard for me to say, just experment, see which one works best.
I've got them too - for beginners I highly recommend an all in one compact - I've heard of maybe three out there, I've tried and like Perfect Pigment by Christina Sullivan - available online and you get a brush and lip gloss