im white, but i tan easily even in the winter
green eyes
very dark red-brown hair

i was thinking a pale light aprocot, or a light nude-peach color, what do you think.

p.s im in highschool, i want it to look natural. and if you have any links that would help me out.

I think your right on the money. A red/pink sheer color for you would be nice on your lips. I have to say though if your hair is more brown than red, a light light nude tan lipstick on your lips would look even better, especially if you play up your eyes.

purple...sumthing dat makes boiis go uuuggghhh

I'd go for a peachy look or a cute girly pink

Try:
apricot
coral
nude
peach
salmon
For more vivid [ parties, dances ]look, try:
tomato red
flame orange

I'd say a coral shade, but not necessarily a very bright or shocking coral. Think tasteful coral.