i want my hair to be soft, but im not sure which conditioner will make it the softest.

I use Biosilk shampoo and conditioner and they make my hair soft, but if you want really soft hair then get some deep conditioner and leave it in for 10-20 minutes. I use Garnier Fructis deep conditioner. It says to leave it in for three minutes but the longer you leave it in, the softer your hair weill be.

a nexxus conditioner called humectress conditioner. check it out.

I'm OBSESSED with Frederic Fekkai products (available at some Bath and Body Works stores, bathandbodyworks.com, or directly from his salons). He's a celebrity stylist so his prosucts are pricey-ish (around $20 per bottle) but WAY worth it! Plus, they're super-concentrated so you only need a small, small amount of product. I use his Technician Color shampoo and conditioner daily for my color-treated hair, and I use the Technician Color hair mask a couple of times a week. After styling, I use his Glosser creame to make my hair soft, smooth, and shiny all over (if you get nothing else, GET THE GLOSSER!!!!!!) - I literally have people walk up to me just to touch my hair!! It's SO soft and light!

I really like Bath & Body Works Moisturizing Conditioner - it's $7.50, but it works so well! If you don't want to spend as much, Herbal Essences works very well also.

In order to get my hair to be soft, 3 times a week after I wash my hair, I towel dry it and apply conditioner. I sleep in it and wash it off the next day. I like Biolage (I'm not sure what it is called but its in a tall tub) and Pantene Time Renewal.

In order to get my hair to be soft, 3 times a week after I wash my hair, I towel dry it and apply conditioner. I sleep in it and wash it off the next day. I like Biolage (I'm not sure what it is called but its in a tall tub) and Pantene Time Renewal.