Okay I wax my legs and bikini area and pluck my brows. Really don't want to do either for my upper lip area...truely believe that would hurt. There are just a few very small hairs, so if I wax or pluck will it effect the hairs growth cycle. Basically don't want some freaken mustache to form! Also what makes it happen in women? Thanks and keep crack comments to yourself.

Waxing it isn't bad at all. I do it and I've gotten used to it. It's really no big deal.

bleach them or just try to wax

hey waxing isn't that bad up there! once you do it every little while it gets better, get a proffesional to do it. see the question is a couple seconds of hurting or a nice mustache