Does mascara really ruin your lashes? Should I use a wax-free mascara instead?

use mineral mascara it works best,
its like 15 dollars but its worth it ...

if you're worried, you can spend 10-15 bucks once every six weeks and get them tinted... it's pretty easy. I think the damage comes from cleaning it off every night, more than the mascara itself. This saves that damage.

it hasn't ruined mine

I use mascara without wax... it looks just as good (smells a little though) and my eyelashes have not been ruined yet

naterally it makes it shorter because wen you take it of you rub it with like a towel or a cloth and it ruins them .