My eyelashes are short and poker straight, so I curl them, but as soon as i put any mascara on it weighs it straight back down. There was a mascara i found that didn't but it clumped alot and looked un-natural.

I don't have this problem as I have really long lashes and cannot really use mascara as it tends to brush onto my cheeks and eyelids. For this reason I dye my eyelashes every 2 weeks. I do this myself at home and bought my most recent tinting products on eBay. While looking for the tint, I noticed that the person was also selling products to perm eyelashes at home. I know this can be done in a salon, but probably costs quite a bit. The eBay seller I used (who has the home eyelash perming gear) is http://stores.ebay.co.uk/Mad4Beauty
It was a good service, items were reasonably priced and delivery was prompt. I would recommend this eBay seller.
If you're not sure how to do this, it might be worth visiting a salon to get them done the first time and then sussing out how to do it yourself with the stuff you can buy online.

A never-fail mascara either, define -a- lash or XXL from maybelline new york!!!!!!!!!!!!!

try using a heated eyelash curler then use the new clarins mascara, its amazing it makes your eyelashes really long and it doesn't clump. Hopefully that won't weigh them down, only apply it once because when you layer mascara it starts to clump and look like spider legs.

ok, its time to be a rebel!!!

i use great lash mascara, which works great, but my eyelashes do the same thing.

so i always break the "beauty rules" and curl my eyelashes after i use mascara... IT WORKS!! and stays curled the whole day. also, i read about when you curl your eyelashes, blast them with hot air from a blow dryer, which makes them stay longer, too

tthe best one is from christian dior. it makes your eyelashes soooo long. its amazing. i love it!!