i like my lips to be pale, because it helps people notice my eyes more.
is there a skin color lipstick that works really well?
Because my skin if fair, almost porcelain.
and i wnt really light lips.
Whenever i put concealer on them they turn chapped and gross...

ALWAYS condition lips. Lip Conditioner Stick SPF 15. Let it soak in for a couple of seconds.

http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY23434&PRODUCT_ID=PROD7 678

Then, use Prep + Prime Lip.

http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY18347&PRODUCT_ID=PROD7 954

Use Cremestick Liner to fill in your lips all the way. This will help the color stay in longer. Try Mother Pearl.

http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15111&PRODUCT_ID=PROD9 064

For lipstick use Fleshpot from the Heatherette collection.

http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15113&PRODUCT_ID=PROD1 3180

Or Not So Innocent from the Fafi collection for a more shimmery effect.

http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15113&PRODUCT_ID=PROD1 2685

You can also try a light tan or pink. Tanarama or Pretty Please.

http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/products/sp.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CATEGORY15113&PRODUCT_ID=PROD1 439

I sometimes do this when my lips are looking really red and I want them to be lighter to go better with dark eye makeup. What I do is use green concealer, which is easy to find, its used to disguise red tones (like for acne and redness on the face). When applied to dark lips it turns them into a lighter shade of pink. Be careful when applying though, take it easy and don't slather on too much at a time. just apply it in small amounts until your lips are as light as you want them

before you put on the conceler put on a clear chapstick

yes toffee or dusty rose, is a natural looking one from mary kay.

i'd use a lipgloss still to jazz it up.

Ok so this isnt the answer you were looking for I am sure... but in my personal opinion fair skin looks best with bold bright reds and other vibrant/bold colors... on the lips... and then minimal eye make up.

For example
http://trixiesbeautybar.files.wordpress.com/2007/10/red-lips-fashion.jpg

sorry if this was no help, heh, but it was my 2 cents