Lol my best friend has this same problem. When u get out of the shower towel ur hair so that it isn't dripping wet. Then put either gel or scrunching mouse in ur hand and scrunch it throughout ur hair. If ur hair doesn't curl easily i would use both. U might try to grab a fist of hiar (to scrunch it) and hair spray it too. Then blow dry it as ur still scrunching it (grabbing fist fulls of hair) I haven't seen anybody this hasn't worked on before so i hope it works for u as well! Good luck!