as a man , and im married to a hair stylist and shes always nagging about how i should do my hair, but i keep my hair natural, i just comb it back and put a beanie on let the ends poke out from under neith, thats about as stylish as i get, but if you feel that it looks hella better straight , isht , get it straight, besides wut ives learned, is irons can damage your hair