I have thick long hair and highlight my hair blonde. I am having trouble finding a good shampoo and conditioner. My hair tangles very easily and poofs out as it drys even if I blow dry it. I've tried quite a few but don't get the desired effect. I've tried nexxus and it makes my hair oily as does redken and it breaks my skin on my back and shoulders out. Paul Mitchell does kinda work but it seems to weigh it down too much. I've even tried cheaper things like sunsilk and pantene and they seem to work but make my scalp itchy. I need help, I appriciate any suggestions and thank you in advance