try these steps, its what i do

1. put a light foundation on your eyes first to ensure that it gets rid of any redness and makes everything one color

2. put dark brown eyeliner on ur bottom lid, but not the entire lid, start in the middle and work your way to the end, after this, get gray eyeliner and lighter coat the brown

3. put mix brown and dark gray eyeshadow, it creates a nice shade that is dark with a brown to accent you eyes and put it on your lid

4 put eyeliner on your top lid, (entire top lid), first teh dark brown and then the gray

5 add mascara

it takes a couple of times to get it right if you have never done this before, so you might mess up the first or second time, but in no time you'll be doing it like a pro

for a more smokey or blurred look, take a qtip and run it over ur bottom eyelid and upper eyeld after 2-3 min of application